In which Our Hero & Partner pen a poem.
She is to fear as I am excitement.
Our poor calibration; our tragic flaws.
Whether biology or culture,
faith or fate,
such is, we agree, a soulmate.
Is this framework unique to us,
or is it self-evident?
Dislike of other comes from framework projection.
Sometimes mine’s better,
sometimes yours.
Neither own all,
nor control wrongly;
Calibration is key.
Before you try to hyperoptimize a process,
be sure you’re optimizing for what you actually want
and not a correlate.
Julian Wise 